you are ashamed of yrself..full of regret and anger...u re in a torrent of thots..."i LET OUT sucha a huge portion of my heart..a huge span of my life time...for THIS undeserving person???? SHAME on me!"
u trusted . u expected. u believed. u loved. and now...U feel STUPID.
u trusted . u expected. u believed. u loved. and now...U feel STUPID.
u tell everyone whose ready to listen..."this is wat i got...i wasted my time...i regret...i repent"
u discuss it day in n day out...it zaps so much of yr time and energy ....those memories keep you grounded on square one! you keep loitering aimlessly in the past...in "what IFs and If ONLYs"
self pitying...self sympathising...the poor..victimised you...
someone mentions "that person" and ure quick to fly off the handle...you abuse..u mutter..u grumble..and plunge back into memories and blurt out: "i have snapped all connections with that wretched"
[o really??? ure not texting...u arent calling...not emailing...not meetin face to face..but wat bout the daily mental encounters?
theres so much of excess baggage in your mind..the more you resist...it persists...
is self pity the only way out?
is discussing about it 24/7 the way to "forget" it??
is making them a regular visitor in yr mind space the way to let go??
today is the time to put a full stop....to their daily visits to yr mind...to signal a "no-entry" to these unwelcome peace disrupting visitors...the time to open your tightly clutched fist to experience the beauty of let go....
and then there will be ONE day..you will be immune.
free in the truest sense of the word...
so even you bang into "that" person...ure unaffected.
that state of indifference...where there isnt space for hatred..avenge...anger....nothing!
that person is now an acquaintance of the past..
their memories no longer control u..coz now u control their entry n exit in that privileged honoured corner of yr mind...
u cease to clamour..crib..complain...coz now u learn to let go...u learn to be free:)
u discuss it day in n day out...it zaps so much of yr time and energy ....those memories keep you grounded on square one! you keep loitering aimlessly in the past...in "what IFs and If ONLYs"
self pitying...self sympathising...the poor..victimised you...
someone mentions "that person" and ure quick to fly off the handle...you abuse..u mutter..u grumble..and plunge back into memories and blurt out: "i have snapped all connections with that wretched"
[o really??? ure not texting...u arent calling...not emailing...not meetin face to face..but wat bout the daily mental encounters?
theres so much of excess baggage in your mind..the more you resist...it persists...
is self pity the only way out?
is discussing about it 24/7 the way to "forget" it??
is making them a regular visitor in yr mind space the way to let go??
today is the time to put a full stop....to their daily visits to yr mind...to signal a "no-entry" to these unwelcome peace disrupting visitors...the time to open your tightly clutched fist to experience the beauty of let go....
and then there will be ONE day..you will be immune.
free in the truest sense of the word...
so even you bang into "that" person...ure unaffected.
that state of indifference...where there isnt space for hatred..avenge...anger....nothing!
that person is now an acquaintance of the past..
their memories no longer control u..coz now u control their entry n exit in that privileged honoured corner of yr mind...
u cease to clamour..crib..complain...coz now u learn to let go...u learn to be free:)
19 comments:
one solid piece of advice in this one.
Good post! :)
And if it IS related to something personal, you're definitely on the right line of thought.
great post!!
stop thinking,start living is the key..ain't it?
@ shaunak: yeah..afta so much errin...finally the right line of thot;)
@ umesh :thankoo:)
hmmmmmm...brains back!!
gud post dear!!
nice 2 c d changes in d blog n gud pik(for tis post)
First of all Divya i just loved d new look of ur blog, It's cool!!!!
And now after d new look dis post is certainly d best, straight frm heart [;)]& indicates a change towards better........
I totally agree with every word in this post... Keep it up buddy!!!
Hmmmm..i knwo this cant be a fiction piece..
this is someone's personal frustation that came out...
If its a personal thing, i would lie to suggest soemthing...
First of all, one shouldnt think of what things you did for the person you loved.
I know it feels too thoritical but u see, love has no borders...when u love someone, u just love them..
Yes, if that person betrayed you, you have good reasons to think like this but not in the case if it is not the case...
One more thing, you cannot forget someone you love just like that..
it takes a lot of things to mae things stop entering your mind..
Though that was my thought..
i loved the way u took the frustration out of your heart..
You got a nice blog...
cheers
@ sush: :):):)
@ andy: look whose talkin bout brains :p
@ shalu: thanq thanq buddie:)
@ mahesh: first of all thanks for the comment:)
yr comment was sure sum fud for thot;)
esp the part of not thinkin bout stuff u did for them...:)
keep visiting!
Huhh... it hurts. But Im wondering how u could think and express it in this way.. u won the 1st stage.. or 99%.. rest the time will heal..
@ randeep: times d best healer no doubt bout dat...n as for expressin it in dis way...there has to come a time when u FINALLY put an end to it:)difficult but not impossible rite?:)
wow...i know i m late by more than a week but still WOW...i loved it...u said the very same things i wanted to say in my poem but u said it without showing anger..real classy.:)
This work of urs has touched me..it really has..."merely an acquaintance of the past" - well said!
I hope u reach that stage yaar
luv
amith
heya amith:) welcome welcome:)
n thanx...!! m glad this post made a lil bit difference:)
as for me: i m happy to disclose i ve crossed dat stage lonng lonng bac;) [thats y dis post na:)]
cheerz!
Very nice :) Let Go! Let it Flow...
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more
To let go and to let God, is to find peace !
- author unknown
kunal!!!!!
beautifully put:)
u sound like cyrus merchant der;p
[read: wen r u returning heartfelt?:P]
lol..kiddin...m glad u re still following:)
You are a beautiful person!! : D
I hope you know that!!
:)
You're a beautiful person!!
I hope you know that!! : D
xx
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